-broken trust --
Saturday, 26 December 2009 12/26/2009 09:51:00 pm
today the rain has been heavy
been slping for like dotta intervals
lazy log
slp and eat. slp and eat
very lifestyle o
luxurious indeed
anyway
was supposed to catch avatar with jasmine today
yesh
she gotten me real pissed
gone out wif her yesterday. our christmas
ate at my fav soup spoon and shop ard the new illuma
it was my first time there
really treasured the shopping time
my shopping trip has always been in between slots of work. alone.
there was no fun
more of a satisfaction of shopping needs
jas has been my jc best bud and it's beena long time since i seen her too
still as pretty as ever
tall and skinny.
was supposed to meet her 1230 at bugis station
and she turned up 40 mins later
i was 5 mins away from reaching
* Ping *
pls guess wad's the reason
she was choosing her shoes to match...
i do not see much a deal initially.
i do admit
i do have such dilema when im going out too.
but i was nv late
that's not all.
today we had avartar planned.
bec'os i may have an appt at 7pm.
im not too sure i can make it too.
anyway cut the story short.
i gave her my words that i will surely turn up
till this morning i msg her to cfm the timing once again
she called and tell me she has not done the online booking yesterday
at that time i was one min away from stepping out of my hse
all ready
imgaine if i were alr in train.
yup
by the time she checked.
all tix were sold out.
im fuming mad.
i gave her my words the night before
yet she chose not to trust my words
then y bother asking me to cfm the night before??
im so so
speechless.
she left behind an msn msg just now
very daring indeed.
asking me if i still wish to watch with her tml or next wk
i cant reply her.
i dunno im to feel she's oblivious abt her fault or she feels nothing is wrong about it.
she does falls into my definition of pampered-ness
What's disappointing ish
she wasnt apologetic yesterday when she sees me
neither was her first word 'sorry' when she calls me this morning
till she felt my anger.
sorry jasmine
if you are my fren, u know my minefield has always been punctuality
you can be late
but let it be a valid reason
no one owes anyone a living
& i hold the the principle to be respectful to each other's time.
is this demanding?
i thot that's the basic
that's the very value taught since pri sch.
anyway it's over.
once written here, it shld be forgotten.
Taling abt trust
am i not a trustworthy person?
what can i do to improve
it takes 2 hands to clap
a fault by one, mus also be reflected by another
i cant think of a soln now.
i thot of ying
we are celebrating out 10 yrs frenship in 5 days time
but i was quite affected by one incident that put this frenship to test.
that's the motor insurance she has asked from me to service her.
guess wad
i managed to offer 3 quotations that is lower than the one she paid
im really so glad and happy
the many ppl i serve, i can benefit my best fren.
Yet.
ok, i do understand the car is registered under her bro's name.
but money is paid by her
moreover it's her own car
ying has all say to choose her agent.
alright, it's not foolstop yet, im not saying when she asked for the quotation, it's a must to take up with me.
customer is always king
they have the right to choose.
but
let me explain
put yourself in her shoes
if someone that u have known for 10 years.
also in the line of motor insurance
and is readily to service u
you are paying the same pr as u pay out there
offered u 3 quotation that is lower than the premium $2.3k u are paying now
and
when accidents were to happen,
u do not need to be afraid of slow claiming
u know that wif a call,
this fren cum agent will definitely do her part.
now
will u take up with her?
her ans is no.
she chose a higher premium to pay and mention her brother took up wif his fren.
wad can i saY?
how should i respond.
i dun wan this thot of mine to ran wild
si i called thrice
she missed it all.
she did not bother to give me a call after
to even try and clear up any misunderstanding
anyway.
i lost trust in this frenship.
in this industry, when i first started off.
my colleague always remind me
how i will get to see the true side of my frens.
i nv believe
im confident with how i treat all my buds
with anyone i go out with
i promise laughter.
but now
my colleagues sure hit the jackpot
in Ying's recent fb msg(reguading the coming 10yrs frenship meetup)to me
it was even written so formally
ha.
dat wasnt the 'format' we usually type in fb.
im quite sensitive.
i mention this inceident to my boss.
and he told me, i shldnt be feeling the dilema of facing this fren of mine
向反
she shld be the one taking over this dilema.
forget it.
next outing is coming
its a combination of belated christmas cum my belated birthday cum the coming new yr
so many events lump into all.
not very glad abt it though.
for me, i always believe birthday should always be exclusive.
same goes for anyone in our grp
blame it on my birth date.
it's not nice to rebut anyway.
so forget it.
now the issue is
shld i turn up
if a fren is not worthy of a trust
wad then is she in anyway considered a fren?